Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Another day in court aaagh!!!!!!!!!!!!

Today we'll be back in court to try to prove my son's innocence of domestic violence. Me, my granddaughter, friend and a number of police officers will show this woman's true character and point out the countless inconsistencies in her claims.

(Just FYI I have no problem telling my son to get lost of he's a wife beater there's no excuse for that)

How many of you men out there have separated from your wife and girlfriend amicably only to have it turn to a nightmare when you found a new significant other? They don't want you but you can't have anyone else either.

Here it is: My son had cellphone text sex with a woman. Never met her, never planned to meet her. Just passing away boring hours on the job. Girlfriend found out and came unglued. Felt it was an affair and that's her right. The problem came with whether or not she could forgive it and go on with their lives. Evidently not. She harassed (her words to me were "nagged") until he became so angry he punched a wall. How many of you felt you were being tortured with ongoing nagging, being followed around the house and not even being allowed to leave the house? This continued for months. Girlfriend told me she was harassing son and just could not get over this affair. I told her "just leave". It had already been decided they would separate but she wouldn't go.

So son moves out, she makes weekly visits to his apartment to bring their son. (yes too bad they had a child) They have sex but basically they are not together. She tells him she's seeing someone but gets angry when he says "yes that's ok so am I"

When son finds his new girlfriend, old girlfriend flips out and here we are today.

She files claim of DV, son loses job, and with no money loses vehicle, apartment and of course the main event, his son.

There's no proof just her claims of on going DV. Claims she has PTSD. Don't we all. We cringe at the sound of a doorbell or a phone call. Who knows what she's done now.

So bottom line were going to court again. I miss my little guy terrible. But of course that's the girl's plan. She great at emotional blackmail and has done it to her own mother. "you'll never see me and the kids again!"

Main reason for this post. How is it that men have no rights? Why is it a woman's claims with no evidence are given any credence and acted on by the courts?

Thousands have been spent on my son's defense. She gets a free attorney. It's not right.

Have to go get ready.

Oh, By the way, even if we win today we still have to go to court for child custody (another 10 grand.) Right now son gets supervised visits because girlfriend claimed, among other things, that he drank a 24 pack of Corona a day. Is that even possible? I saw Corona bottles at son's house and asked my granddaughter who lived with them for a while who was doing all the drinking. Her answer? The girlfriend is. This girl also gave my granddaughter (14 years old at the time) alcohol to drink; Corona, White Zin, Captain Morgan with pineapple and Segram's Ice.

And this girlfriend says I cannot see grandson until I take parenting classes.

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